tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post5107618431708663645..comments2023-05-23T15:39:02.370+08:00Comments on fireangelism: Trusting Your Partner With An Ex?angeltinihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00533678818266024072noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-61591692614518947962008-01-28T08:38:40.000+08:002008-01-28T08:38:40.000+08:00no. screw him. (the ex.)no. screw him. (the ex.)bongkerszhttp://bongkersz.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-16386756425065901952008-01-25T07:58:08.000+08:002008-01-25T07:58:08.000+08:00i never ever bother to "keep in touch" w...i never ever bother to "keep in touch" with my ex's. hell i even delete their numbers. :Dedwinhttp://southernoise.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-28269265411787407272008-01-23T02:20:59.000+08:002008-01-23T02:20:59.000+08:00FA i love youFA i love youpinkpauhttp://quaintly.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-6526648091732744152008-01-22T06:34:25.000+08:002008-01-22T06:34:25.000+08:00i must say it's really an interesting post!i must say it's really an interesting post!Janicehttp://www.xanga.com/nastyhotlipznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-65926078902531913752008-01-20T06:14:24.000+08:002008-01-20T06:14:24.000+08:00Hi,ALMOST everyone is an ex to someone....my point...Hi,<br>ALMOST everyone is an ex to someone....my point is, trust is helluva important in a relationship.Why bother going out with someone you dont fully trust?<br>Take it easy.SMRnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-9951935166355692562008-01-21T10:27:37.000+08:002008-01-21T10:27:37.000+08:00ARe you having a relationship already? Been away f...ARe you having a relationship already? Been away for a while.ISnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-48548987509694777232008-01-19T08:28:24.000+08:002008-01-19T08:28:24.000+08:00I got jealousy issues. So, NO, NO MEETING UP AND A...I got jealousy issues. So, NO, NO MEETING UP AND ALL THOSE NONSENSE. I am your man, you are my girl, I take care of your feelings, you take care of mine and we live happily ever after. The End.Kuzconoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-84108057390083304502008-01-20T01:11:36.000+08:002008-01-20T01:11:36.000+08:00fireangel! i agree with u.maybe because i also thi...fireangel! i agree with u.maybe because i also think to much (blablabla). i love this entry, you probably blogged out what some of us feel but have never spoken out<br><br>:)Ivynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-39127925611888578212008-01-21T19:49:58.000+08:002008-01-21T19:49:58.000+08:00Hell no.I say just don't put oneself in a posi...Hell no.<br><br>I say just don't put oneself in a position where shite can hit the fan. As they say, sorry no cure.wombokhttp://www.wombok.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-69712795261078946602008-01-19T00:57:55.000+08:002008-01-19T00:57:55.000+08:00Jealousy is common wat. If you don't want your...Jealousy is common wat. If you don't want your boo to meet his ex just say it to him in his face. Ha ha ha... At least he can arrange some midnight express rendezvous rite? Ha ha ha.Jerrynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-69949941704293542232008-01-19T03:47:35.000+08:002008-01-19T03:47:35.000+08:00tak boleh, tak boleh. wanna be friends, do it at a...tak boleh, tak boleh. wanna be friends, do it at a distance and not BFF.pifflesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-49348264454317823842008-01-18T09:07:33.000+08:002008-01-18T09:07:33.000+08:00what an alternate universe..=( had this discussion...what an alternate universe..<br><br>=( had this discussion with my bf before. He said that he wouldn't be able to talk to me anymore or even be my friend if we ever break up. I guess I can't imagine being friendly with him..coz I can't imagine what horrible thing could probably happen to split us up. The both of us are just glad that we're each others' firsts. <br><br>but but, a friend of mine has a boyfriend who has an ex who wanted to meet up. She was NOT happy but she tried to stay civilized and only allowed it to happen if she went along. <br><br><br>However, it's like a fucking cancer if your boyfriend is still friends with his ex. Especially if she smses him or meets up with him for 'breakfast'(coz breakfasts mean nothing ya? Unlike "drinks")..<br><br>ohmigod if i was ever in that position I would throw such a huge tantrum and ensure that the girl's life is miserable, go over to her and tell her to fucking fuck off. <br><br>:( i know i sound insecure. But just imagining someone who used to do the same things i do with my boyfriend still hanging around...shit, now my blood pressure has gone up.<br><br>ok back to studying. :)Jayellehttp://www.jayelleenelial.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-12522376847894089212008-01-18T23:14:39.000+08:002008-01-18T23:14:39.000+08:00i think there are rules apply to this type of situ...i think there are rules apply to this type of situation.<br>and how you apply to them will generally lead to different outcome.<br><br>here's what i can conclude.<br><br>1.) Be fair to your current partner,so DO NOT MEET UP WITH YOUR EX! <br>Seriously what's the point? Is your partner trying to savour something from this 'meeting'? come on, what's done is done,so move the fuck on! as quoted =)<br>If your partner doesn't mind you meeting up with your ex, she/he is prolly lying. I bet my balls on this. The old flame is dead, don't try to start another spark. <br><br>2.) If possible, stay the fuck away from your ex. Strictly limited to only MSN and do it when the moon is blue or if just strike a lottery. The game plan here is play it cold.If she/he doesn't bother you,why shoudl you? don't be an itchy ass and start the move. <br><br>3.) Tell your partner if you love her everyday.<br><br>=)Vinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-66661525181706907202008-01-17T19:54:38.000+08:002008-01-17T19:54:38.000+08:00trusting my man with his ex?hell NO..said 'bou...trusting my man with his ex?hell NO..said 'bout trust?yeah..right!LAME<br>how bout just move on?<br><br>please being "friendly" to somebody else beside your ex-es people(yes..to all women and men on this planet earth).<br><br>i've accidentally found out long time ago that one of my fiance ex's doing this.she keep on sending cute emels n ecards.she keep sending testimonial on his friendster talking bout "MY BEST FRIEND" ,"I MISS YOU MY FRIEND","LET'S DO COFFEE SOMETIME"..yada..yada..boleh percaya ke?<br><br>at first i'm just laughing and thinking that she's one big time desperado.even my fiance said that she just being nice..that's all.but after a while,she just getting into my nerves.she keep asking why didnt replying her emel..bla..bla..bla.so,i've made some checking and found out that she actually have a BF.erm..she's taken.<br><br>so,i've sent her one serious emel.giving her some thought here and there..like:<br><br>1.what the hell are you doing?<br>2.are you some crazy bitch that love to disturb other woman life?<br>3.does your BF know that you've been doing this?<br>4.do u respect other person?<br><br>and believe me that my man also got some piece of my mind that time.<br><br>i wont to this to my man..evermeynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-14934019942580579112008-01-18T06:32:44.000+08:002008-01-18T06:32:44.000+08:00I broke up a relationship with a girl i love cos s...I broke up a relationship with a girl i love cos she was to obsesses with my past.<br><br>my ex love my parent very much and she keep in touch with them and my parent to threat my gf very nice but she is just too insecure.<br><br>We broke up even tough i do love her too bad. <br><br>So to FA, learn to accept things as it come along, you will be much happier.xiaomahttp://www.wfth.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-83026862890659932662008-01-17T18:18:40.000+08:002008-01-17T18:18:40.000+08:00what if your partner doesn't quite appreciate ...what if your partner doesn't quite appreciate the lack of trust you have in him?<br>after all, it's all abt trust.Vagushttp://www.doctorslife.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-18268173294774393692008-01-17T18:21:40.000+08:002008-01-17T18:21:40.000+08:00I heard that on the radio as well and even wrote a...I heard that on the radio as well and even wrote about it in my blog. The thing is, I have remained close with all (most) of my ex-es and this is due to the fact that we broke up on very mutual terms and understanding. I have an ex-gf whom I have been with for 4 years and stayed together for 2+ years when we were studying in Aussie and when we came back, we broke up. It's due to the fact that we were both very strong in our opinions and quarrelled a lot and thus both knew that we could not be together. We are great friends but just that we knew that we are not right for each other. We have both since found our other half which is more of a balance. Her bf being the tolerant one and my gf being the tolerant one. So how could we not be friends and meet since we broke up under such circumstances? It truly depends on the situation.charleshttp://www.blogwithtitle.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-85384071076392249812008-01-17T04:24:43.000+08:002008-01-17T04:24:43.000+08:00KY - I'd trust my Ex with an axe ......provide...KY - I'd trust my Ex with an axe ...<br>...<br>provided it was buried ...<br>...<br>in her back. :DDabidohttp://www.dabido65.com/wordpress/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-2620839899416283152008-01-17T05:33:09.000+08:002008-01-17T05:33:09.000+08:00I couldn't read past the first 10 comments but...I couldn't read past the first 10 comments but I liked Kimberly's "Bitch begone and move the fuck on" =DCheesecakeerianhttp://cheesecakeerian.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-17949190679054521642008-01-17T13:52:09.000+08:002008-01-17T13:52:09.000+08:00wah wah, you gotta stop listening to the radio dar...wah wah, you gotta stop listening to the radio darling :)<br><br>That said, I'm floored by the ammount of comments you got on this post. I can't contribute anything that hasn't already been said except that we have to stop thinking too much into these kind of things. Nothing is life is guaranteed. <br><br>Take it all as it comes and if doesn't work out, something else will. <br><br>It always does.Jojonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-74111885162600862312008-01-17T00:17:48.000+08:002008-01-17T00:17:48.000+08:00sometimes things dun werk out. sometimes we can fo...sometimes things dun werk out. sometimes we can forgive and forget. <br>sometimes we can be friends. sometimes, it's up to the person and His/Her current Beau. <br>the world is too small la... sure TER-meet sumwhere/sumhow one la. Its how mature we want to respond to it.<br><br>coz the actions says it all.<br><br><b>FA: exactly. actions says it all. not words.</b>Mows.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-28846767641679358112008-01-17T00:40:51.000+08:002008-01-17T00:40:51.000+08:00if its yours it's yours.. no point forcing ano...if its yours it's yours.. no point forcing another person to conform to a certain behaviour... i think this comes back to the issue of trust , and if there is no trust in a relationship, well..eksknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-19846999467665791752008-01-17T02:26:38.000+08:002008-01-17T02:26:38.000+08:00OK, let's look at this from a different perspe...OK, let's look at this from a different perspective. You have a friend you grew up with. One thing leads to another and you're both in a relationship. The relationship doesn't work.<br><br>1) Do you break off your friendship with your childhood friend because of a failed relationship?<br>2) If not, would you break your friendship off with your chilhood friend because your significant other half doesn't like you both hanging out together?<br><br>Case of LPPL, isn't it?Rambling Mindnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-26158794390411009522008-01-17T03:16:38.000+08:002008-01-17T03:16:38.000+08:00My husband's ex actually hangs out with us pre...My husband's ex actually hangs out with us pretty often because they still share the same group of friends. She comes over with her husband to play mahjong sometimes.<br><br>It was pretty awkward at the beginning but after I got to know her, it was patently clear to me why they had broken up: They are / were just not right for each other i.e. no chance of them ever getting back together again. They are fine as friends but I can't for the life of me see how they could have possibly gotten together in the first place because they are as different as chalk and cheese.<br><br>My ex sometimes comes and meets me for lunch alone and my husband is fine with it. And the reason why my ex comes and meets me for lunch at work is because he is all awkward in front of my husband.<br><br>So my answer would be: It's strictly on a case by case basis.melahttp://jomelchaton.diaryland.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8657140143200939495.post-31637511365837570072008-01-16T21:52:27.000+08:002008-01-16T21:52:27.000+08:00It's o.k. provided that there have not been mo...It's o.k. provided that there have not been more than 30 attempts to contact them without reply on a daily basis. If for instance 20 text messages, 10 emails and 14 phone calls an hour are received every day for say a period of 10 years then it would not be safe.<br>If they for instance hover over your house in a hired helicopter claiming that they are looking for their lost dog then you may have cause to worry.Jack Ellnoreply@blogger.com